Couples Therapy Intensives in Vermont & Beyond

“The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships.”
— Esther Perel

Are you and your partner navigating significant life changes that have left you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure about your future?

Your journey may be filled with overwhelming pressure to meet society's standards, achieve personal goals, and maintain a sense of control.

Are you struggling to focus at work, enjoy your time with your closest friends, and feel you are on the right path?

It may feel impossible now, but you can feel confident, clear, and satisfied with some tools to build self-awareness and compassion. And I can help you get there.

Therapy for anxiety and perfectionism can help.

Working with me will help you:

  1. Foster self-compassion & acceptance through mindfulness techniques and somatic exercises.

  2. Build self-awareness through learning about your history and how you relate to the world.

  3. Increase tool kit for stressful times and gain a more consistent healthy emotional state.

It’s time to feel like your true self.

Are you and your partner navigating significant life changes that have left you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure about your future?

I understand couples' unique challenges when confronted with significant life transitions, such as a career shift, a move, welcoming a child, or the transformative journey of parenthood.

Life's transitions can be exhilarating but can bring unexpected challenges and strain your relationship. We know that during these moments, it's easy for communication to falter, intimacy to dwindle, and conflicts to arise. That's where couples counseling comes in.

My mission is to provide a nurturing space where you and your partner(s) can rediscover your emotional connection, revitalize your communication, and navigate these transitions with grace and resilience. We specialize in supporting couples from all walks of life: heterosexual couples, monogamous couples, LGBTQ+ couples, and non-traditional or consensual non-monogamous couples (CNM or ENM). Your love knows no boundaries, and neither do we.

As a Gottman Trained therapist, I am equipped with the invaluable tools and insights derived from decades of research by Dr. John Gottman and his team. This evidence-based approach helps couples build stronger relationships by fostering trust, increasing intimacy, and effectively managing conflict.

In addition to my Gottman Training, I have been fortunate to train with esteemed experts such as Ester Perel and Dan Siegel. These experiences have deepened my understanding of attachment and the intricacies of relationships, enabling me to provide you with holistic and compassionate guidance.

I have also worked alongside Jessica Fern of PolySecure and often consult with her when working with couples exploring polyamorous relationships.

I understand the fear of losing connection with your partner amidst the chaos, the uncertainty of navigating evolving roles and responsibilities, and the overwhelming emotions that come with change. Rest assured, you are not alone. Together, we can create a roadmap to help you reconnect, strengthen your bond, and navigate these transitions as a united team.

I invite you to embark on this transformative journey with us. Take the first step today by reaching out for a FREE consultation. Let us help you cultivate a relationship that survives and thrives in the face of life's transitions. You deserve a love that endures and a future filled with joy.

My Specialities

Couples (18-40) Navigating Big Life Changes

  • Individuals or Couples and Parents looking to break childhood patterns who find the virtual platform most accessible. *The best couple clients are committed to each other but looking to bring their relationship to a new level

  • Sessions involve completing the Adult Attachment Interview, discussing what it uncovered and exploring tools for healing what is not serving you,  writing a coherent narrative and utilizing guided journeys to understand when the process is completed. 

    This process will help you grow awareness of your relationship patterns and empower you to create the relationships you truly want.

    Includes: Free consultation, extensive intake assessments, weekly meeting (50 or 75 minutes/each), and secure weekly messaging for questions as they arise (M-F)

In-person weekend intensive in Vermont

  • Committed couples who are looking to bring their relationship to the next level and break annoying patterns they find getting in their way.

    It is also designed for parents to take a deep look at their parenting style and what is and isn’t working for them.

  • During the couples weekend or re-parenting retreat, you’ll improve your empathic listening skills, complete a shared values assessment, build love maps, complete the Adult Attachment Interview, explore traumas and triggers, and write a coherent narrative. These activities will help you and your partner(s) deepen your relationships with yourselves and each other.

    ​Weekends in person in Northern Vermont Schedule: Friday 5-8pm, Saturday 9am-5pm and Sunday 9am-2pm.

    Includes: Free consultation, extensive intake assessments, email or phone assistance in planning Vermont trip, 16 hours in-person, and two virtual follow ups (at 1 week and 1 month).

  • The main difference is that there is a plan, a focus, and an end date. I am also happy to do general couples counseling if you feel that is a better fit.

  • Someone/couple who is interested and committed to transformation and would prefer to completely jump in rather than slowly chip away at it. The attachment-based intensives are best for individuals/couples that are looking to gain a greater understanding of their ongoing patterns and triggers.

    We will take a deep dive into your childhood experiences and make sense of them. Doing this as a couple creates an invaluable sense of empathy and understanding for one another. Intensives can also help individuals strengthen their sense of self and learn useful skills for existing and future relationships.

  • No, you do not. You DO need to travel to Vermont and book a place to stay for the weekend if you choose the in-person weekend intensive. For your ease, the therapy will happen at the place you booked unless previously discussed. These are a few of the places I recommend booking that is conducive to therapy (some spaciousness):

    Please book Friday-Monday at minimum.

    Sterling Ridge Resort in Jeffersonville, VT

    *For online clients, I can meet with you out of state as a relational coach

  • Pre travel: Fill out assessments and create profile in simple practice

    Friday 5-8pm Welcome, Introductions and Assessment Review

    Saturday 9-10am Questions and Goal Setting

    10am-12pm Adult Attachment Interview

    12-1pm Break/Lunch

    1-2pm Finish Adult Attachment Interview and Discussion

    2-4pm Exploring Wounds and Triggers

    4-5 Wrap up and evening goals

    Sunday 9-10am Check in and skill building

    10am-12pm Write coherent narratives

    12-12:30pm Break

    12:30-1:30pm Skill building

    1:30-2pm Wrap up and review plan

    *PLUS two virtual follow ups for 45 minutes post intensive (more possible for fee if desired).

  • Please book a consult so I can understand your needs and give you a quote.

  • Inquire with Kali via email.

Relationship Intensives FAQs